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Bold Moves for Making New Friends


Making New Friends

If you find yourself longing for new friendships, you're not alone. Making new friends as a mom can feel overwhelming, but it's a rewarding venture.  We have written a lot about the power of mom friendships, but what if you’re still not sure how to step out of your comfort zone and cultivate these relationships?


Understanding the Challenges

Making friends as an adult is different from those carefree childhood days. Responsibilities, time constraints, and sometimes a touch of shyness can make it seem daunting. But, remember, every mom out there probably feels the same at some point. It's not just about finding friends; it's about finding your tribe - people who get the ups and downs of motherhood.


Where to Meet New People

Meeting new people requires putting yourself in new situations. Here are some mom-friendly places and activities where you can connect with potential friends:

  • Community Events: Look for local gatherings, such as a craft fair, a book club, or a yoga class. These events are great for meeting people who share your interests.

  • Mom Groups: Joining mom groups, either in your local community or online, can be a goldmine for friendship. They're a hub for moms at similar life stages, offering both support and camaraderie.

  • Volunteering: Engaging in volunteer work can connect you with compassionate individuals who share your values. Plus, it's rewarding and enriching for your soul.


Initiating Conversations

Starting a conversation might seem intimidating, but it's the gateway to new friendships. Here’s how to ease into it:

  • Find Common Ground: Whether it's a shared hobby or the challenges of parenting, finding something in common can kick-start a conversation.

  • Show Genuine Interest: People appreciate it when you take an interest in their lives. Ask open-ended questions and listen actively.

  • Offer Compliments: A sincere compliment can be a great conversation starter and can make someone's day.


Nurturing New Friendships

Once you've made a new friend, it's important to nurture that relationship:

  • Keep in Touch: A quick message or call to check in can show that you care.

  • Plan Activities Together: Whether it's a coffee date or a family picnic, spending quality time together helps strengthen your bond.

  • Be Patient: Good friendships take time to develop. Be patient and let them grow naturally.


Overcoming Shyness

According to Psychology Today, between 40%-50% of adults consider themselves somewhat shy. If this is you, try:

  • Embracing Your Uniqueness: Your quirks and interests make you who you are. Embrace them; they might be what attracts your new best friend.

  • Baby Steps: Begin with small gestures. A friendly smile or a compliment can open doors to new conversations.

  • Self-Compassion: It's okay to feel nervous. Be gentle with yourself and acknowledge that stepping out of your comfort zone is a brave act in itself.


Embarking on the journey of making new friends as a mom can be as exciting as it is nerve-wracking. Each step you take is a stride towards a richer, more connected life. After all,  in the beautiful chaos of motherhood, we're all in this together.

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